Let’s admit it: falling in love can be overwhelming, electrifying, and sometimes a bit complicated. And, whether it’s your overthinking or you just can’t help picture a future together, how do you know if your BF is your soulmate?
Is he really the one you would end up living with, marry, have a family with, or whatever your long-term goals look like? The concept of a soulmate can be intimidating. And, looking for a soulmate can be super challenging, especially if you are confused about your current relationship. While things can sometimes feel a bit questionable, here’s one thing- soulmates aren’t born, they are created. Plus, what’s yours WILL BE YOURS!
That said, here are 10 signs that your current BF is your soulmate-
You have this intuition.
Deep down, you just know you and they are meant to be. No test will ever determine whether they are your soulmate or not. It would only be your intuition. In short, your gut will tell you if someone is right for you and meant for you. You will feel energized, excited, and relaxed in their presence. You would just be giddy with love.
They are your BEST FRIEND.
Quite literally. You would feel absolutely thrilled to share every part of your life with you. And, beyond that, you would feel comfortable doing so. Friendship can be a foundation for any relationship, and if you feel like they are one of your best friends, with whom you can talk about absolutely anything, we think you already know the answer.
They feel at home.
You know, sometimes when you look at a person, and you feel at home? It’s a feeling you can’t describe. That’s what being with a soulmate looks like. You spend so much time together, and still, being with them gives you that peace that you truly belong here. Like, it was meant to be.
You have empathy for them.
This might seem like one of the rare twin flame signs, but you feel what they feel. If they fail at something, you feel sad as well. Seeing them upset makes you sad, and you are willing to do whatever to put that smile on their face.
There’s respect between you.
Okay, but this one is pretty important. A relationship that is based on mutual respect is always meant to last. And, if your current BF respects you (not just alone, but also in front of his friends), he is your soulmate.
You can strike that balance.
You don’t always have to be a replica of your SO. Couples can have different personalities, different likes, or ways of living, and still balance each other out. Like, he may be a bit patient, and you can sometimes be short-tempered. Or, he is your yin to your yang.
There’s respect in differences and still a common ground.
This is one of the most important signs if you are looking for a soulmate. A soulmate would respect your differences in opinions, but would always find that common ground for a balanced out conversation or way of living.
You have the same life goals.
This doesn’t necessarily mean that you want to live the same life literally. But, overall, when you look at the bigger picture, you know they share the same goals as you. It can be anything, like having a family together or what values you would like your kids to have.
You challenge each other.
A healthy relationship is always one that grows and challenges. That said, you challenge each other, which helps you and them be a better version of themselves and yourself.
You can be YOU.
There’s absolutely no faking it. When you are with your soulmate, you feel like yourself, and don’t feel like making up this version you know they might like. You feel comfortable in your skin.